You've got the newborn onesies washed, the bassinet built (mostly), and the diaper stash ready.

But there's one thing you're still figuring out: how to bring home baby #2 when baby #1 is still pretty fresh to the world too.  Bringing home a new baby with a toddler at home can feel like trying to keep a soufflé from falling in the middle of a dance party. Here are practical, real-world tips to help you get through those early weeks with as much grace (and coffee) as possible.

Prep a Toddler Survival Kit

Think: snacks, toys that don’t require adult supervision, water bottles, books, and a handful of things they ONLY get during baby feeds or diaper changes. Bonus points for anything that makes a mess only in a contained space.

Pro tip: Stick a small basket in every room with emergency toddler distractions.

Double Up on Essentials

No, you don’t need two of everything—but two changing stations, two diaper bags (one in the car), and two sets of postpartum supplies (one upstairs, one down) will make life way easier.

Also helpful: A snack basket for you. You need fuel too!

Babywearing = Freedom

A soft wrap or structured carrier is a game changer. It lets you hold the baby while still pouring cereal, giving hugs, or attending to a toddler tantrum without feeling like you're abandoning your newborn or cloning yourself.

Just remember: Practice wearing the baby before the big debut so you’re not wrestling fabric with one hand while someone screams for Goldfish.

Embrace the "Shift Parenting" Model

Divide and conquer! Take turns managing toddler vs. baby care. Even an hour-long shift can help one of you shower, rest, or reset your nervous system.

Dad back at work and you are a solo parent? This is where Triangle Mothercare shines. Our Daytime Doulas can step in to give you that much-needed break.

Lower the Bar and Keep the Vibe Cozy

Now is not the time for gourmet meals or Pinterest-perfect crafts. Your job is survival and connection.

♥Paper plates are fine.

♥Screen time isn’t going to ruin your toddler.

♥A shower counts as a major win.

Permission granted: to be gentle with yourself and your expectations.

Triangle Mothercare to the Rescue

The early weeks with two littles can be a little wild! Triangle Mothercare offers in-home postpartum support to:

♥Care for the newborn while you bond with your toddler (or vice versa)...or take a NAP!

♥Lighten your household load (laundry, dishes, bottle prep, light cleaning)

♥Offer reassurance, guidance, and even make you a snack (snacks can almost fix everything)

You're doing a big thing—you deserve big support.  Learn more about reserving services.